We need other people to speak into our lives.
It can be so easy to live life today without true connections with others. We don’t like any churches so we say we will just live by faith at home. We don’t want to do “Small groups” or “connection groups” if we DO do church because it can be uncomfortable or we don’t particularly click with the people we were placed with. We don’t go to Bible Study, we don’t have close friends.
It can be isolating. Not only that, we can grow so comfortable in that isolation that we don’t see that it’s isolating.
In this kind of a life, the only voice we hear in life is our own and our immediate family’s. We may have a great family. But family isn’t always objective.
As far as our own voice goes, we can be our most critical influence in life. We can be so hard on ourselves. Negative. Picking out all of our flaws and faults. Or on the other end of the scale, we can ignore our flaws and faults. We can gloss over areas of our heart and life that need to be worked on.
Yes, we need other people to speak into our lives. We need Godly influences. Moral people. People of character. People who are reliable and whom we can trust. We need SEVERAL people. Just as we shouldn’t only listen to one pastor or one Christian speaker, we shouldn’t just listen to one friend or influence in our life. For even if intentions are good, we can often be led astray. But if you have several people inputting and speaking into your life, then you can better filter what is being said. If people are reiterating the same thing, then usually that is advice that needs to be heeded and listened to.
It’s all for our good. For our growth.
Finding good influence can be hard, at times. Maybe you’re looking and you’re struggling to find those people whom you can trust. People who really care about you. Keep praying about it. Keep looking. Oftentimes you can find them in places you hadn’t thought of. Yes, sometimes, it’s at church, but other times it might be at the gym, or at work. Maybe it’s the fellow parent of your teen whom you keep bumping into.
Keep praying about those voices. Keep seeking them out. For we are always better together, than alone.