Do not change yourselves to be like the people of this world, but be changed within by a way of thinking. Then you will be able to decide what God wants for you; you will know what is good and pleasing to Him and what is perfect.
Jesus can’t leave us unchanged. He wants the best for us even if those changes are painful at times. The more we allow God to change us, the more we will be able to see what His plans are because we are being conformed in His image… not ours.